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History



      Early Internet forums could be described as a web version of a newsgroup or electronic mailing list (many of which were commonly called Usenet); allowing people to post messages and comment on other messages. Later developments emulated the different newsgroups or individual lists, providing more than one forum, dedicated to a particular topic.[2]

      Internet forums are prevalent in several developed countries. In terms of countable posts, Japan is far in the lead with over two million posts per day on their largest forum, 2channel. China also has many millions of posts on forums such as Tianya Club. The United States does not have any one large forum, but instead several hundred thousand smaller forums, the largest of which are Gaia Online, IGN and GameFAQs. China, the Netherlands, and France are also home to hundreds of independent forums.[citation needed]






       Forums perform a function similar to that of dial-up bulletin board systems and Usenet networks that were common from the late 1970s to the 1990s.[2] Early web-based forums date back as far as 1996. A sense of virtual community often develops around forums that have regular users. Technology, computer games and/or video games, sports, music, fashion, religion, and politics are popular areas for forum themes, but there are forums for a huge number of topics. Internet slang and image macros popular across the Internet are abundant and widely used in Internet forums.


        Forum software packages are widely available on the Internet and are written in a variety of programming languages, such as PHP, Perl, Java and ASP. The configuration and records of posts can be stored in text files or in a database. Each package offers different features, from the most basic, providing text-only postings, to more advanced packages, offering multimedia support and formatting code (usually known as BBCode). Many packages can be integrated easily into an existing website to allow visitors to post comments on articles.


        Several other web applications, such as weblog software, also incorporate forum features. Wordpress comments at the bottom of a blog post allow for a single-threaded discussion of any given blog post. Slashcode, on the other hand, is far more complicated, allowing fully threaded discussions and incorporating a robust moderation and meta-moderation system as well as many of the profile features available to forum users.


Forum structure



A forum consists of a tree like directory structure containing at the lowest end topics (commonly called threads) and inside them posts. Logically forums are organised into a finite set of generic topics (usually with one main topic) driven and updated by a group known as members, and governed by a group known as moderators

User groups



      Internally, Western-style forums organise visitors and logged in members into user groups. Privileges and rights are given based on these groups. A user of the forum can automatically be promoted to a more privileged user group based on criteria set by the administrator.[15] A person viewing a closed thread as a member will see a box saying he does not have the right to submit messages there, but a moderator will likely see the same box granting him access to more than just posting messages.[16]

     An unregistered user of the site is commonly known as a guest or visitor. Guests are granted access to all functions that do not require database alterations or breach privacy. A guest can view the contents of the forum or use such features as read marking.[note 2] A person who is a very frequent visitor of the forum, a section or even a thread is referred to as a lurker and the habit is referred to as lurking. Registered members often will refer to themselves as lurking in a particular location, which is to say they have no intention of participating in that section but enjoy reading the contributions to it.


Administrator



       The administrators (short form: "admin") manage the technical details required for running the site. As such, they may promote (and demote) members to moderators, manage the rules, create sections and sub-sections, as well as perform any database operations (database backup etc). Administrators often also act as moderators. Administrators may also make forum-wide announcements, or change the appearance (known as the skin) of a forum.[18]

     The term prune used extensively in administration panels is synonymous with delete or remove. The term comes from pruning, the practice of removing diseased, non-productive, or otherwise unwanted portions from a plant.


Post



       A post is a user submitted message enclosed into a block containing the user's details and the date and time it was submitted. Members are usually allowed to edit or delete their own posts. Posts are contained in threads, where they appear as boxes one after another. The first post starts the thread; this may be called the original post, or OP. Posts that follow in the thread are meant to continue discussion about that post, or respond to other replies; it is not unknown for discussions to be derailed.

       On Western forums, the classic way to show a member's own details (such as name and avatar) has been on the left side of the post, in a narrow column of fixed width, with the post controls located on the right, at the bottom of the main body, above the signature block. In more recent forum software implementations the Asian style of displaying the members' details above the post has been copied.

      Posts have an internal limit usually measured in characters. Often one is required to have a message of minimum length of 10 characters. There is always an upper limit but it is rarely reached – most boards have it at either 10,000, 30,000 or 50,000 characters.

Thread



          A thread is a collection of posts, usually displayed – by default – from oldest to latest, although the option for a threaded view (a tree-like view applying logical reply structure before chronological order) can be available. A thread is defined by a title, an additional description that may summarise the intended discussion, and an opening or original post (common abbreviation 'OP', which can also mean original poster) which opens whatever dialogue or makes whatever announcement the poster wished. A thread can contain any number of posts, including multiple posts from the same members, even if they are one after the other.

        A thread is contained in a forum, and is displayed in chronological order from newest to oldest, where the date is taken as the date of the last post (options to order threads by other criteria are generally available). When a member posts in a thread it will jump to the top since it is the latest updated thread. Similarly, other threads will jump in front of it when they receive posts. When a member posts in a thread for no reason but to have it go to the top, it is referred to as a bump or bumping. Threads which are important but rarely receive posts are stickyed (or, in some software, 'pinned'). A sticky thread will always appear in front of normal threads, often in its own section.

        A thread's popularity is measured on forums in reply (total posts minus one – the opening post) counts. Some forums also track page views. Threads meeting a set number of posts or a set number of views may receive a designation such as "hot thread" and be displayed with a different icon compared to others threads.


Discussion

      Forums prefer a premise of open and free discussion and often adopt de facto standards. Most common topics on forums include questions, comparisons, polls of opinion as well as debates. Because of their volatile and random behavior it is not uncommon for nonsense or unsocial behavior to sprout as people lose temper, especially if the topic is controversial. Poor understanding of differences in values of the participants is a common problem on forums. Because replies to a topic are often wording aimed at someone's point of view, discussion will usually go slightly off into several directions as people question each others validity, sources and so on. Circular discussion and ambiguity in replies can carry out arguments for several tens of posts of a thread eventually ending when everyone gives up or another similar debate takes it over. It is not uncommon for a style over substance or ad hominem debates to be the ones to take it over.
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one thing learn from asignment part 1

refer the asignment part 1, i learned a lot of thing about harware and software computr. for example before this dnot know what the fuction of processoe speed and hard disk. so after this i will make sure before buy the tool of harware and software i can check the specification each of tool. and than i will make sure the price of each tool computer is relavant their RAM and srcreen because of have a company bid the lower price but the quality. at the same with the asignment i get a lot of information about sotfware and hardware and improve my skill to choose the best harware and sotware
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Does True Love Really Exist???

By now, you have come to realize that everything isn’t always what it appears on television. From when you were a small girl, you’ve seen countless movies, cartoons, and read many books that tell the story about how the beautiful women is always swept off her feet in the end by Prince Charming, and they ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. But from the moment you stepped into junior high, and found out that guys are insensitive, immature, and goofy to when you stepped into high school, and found out that guys are even more insensitive, cruel, jerks to college where guys are selfish, liars, and only want sex.
And with any relationship that you’ve had, chances are there were lots of fights or arguments, many broken hearts and perhaps lots of nights crying yourself to sleep. And that is while you are in the relationship. There’s a good chance that you’ve had a few relationships that ended rocky, whether with a big fight where many hurtful things were said. Or perhaps you found out about him being unfaithful to you, and that led to the demise of your relationship. And that created even more nights of crying yourself to sleep.
The problem with most girls is that they give up on this dream they once had as a small girl, to find and marry the man of her dreams. Their dreams are crushed as they grow older and realize that the fairy tale that they used to believe in, just isn’t how it is in real life. So they settle for a guy that isn’t right for them, and they put up with stuff that they shouldn’t have to put up with, and they get divorced, or end up being unhappy in a dead end marriage. Nearly 50% of marriages in America end in divorce. That is a very staggering statistic. That statistic doesn’t even include all the people that are unhappy but stay together for whatever reason. Now I know that doesn’t really give you a lot of hope. In fact, it probably deflates any hope you had. But don’t worry, we will fix that.


Realize that there is a Mr. Right for you

The first step to finding Mr. Right, is to understand that he does exist. Of course, chances are, your story probably won’t end up like a fairy tale where a guy on horseback comes and takes you away to his castle. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t find a guy that will make you happy, and that you won’t have a happy life. Life is never perfect, and either is marriage. You won’t find a guy that is perfect, just like you will never be perfect. We are all human, which means that we all have faults, and make mistakes. But you can find someone that will truly enrich your life, treat you like a princess and help make you feel complete.
The reason I know that there still are guys out there that know how to treat women, is because I had the pleasure of watching the way my dad has treated my mom as I’ve grown up. My dad was 18 and my mom was 20 when they got married and had me. And in the twenty something years that I can remember, I have NEVER ONCE heard my dad raise his voice at my mom. I can remember them disagreeing about some things, but they always solved it that day, and my dad never ever raised his voice at her. He isn’t perfect, but he has always been there for my mom, has loved her unconditionally, and would do anything for her. He does large things, and small things for her. He is romantic and does things for no reason. He has been a role model for me on how to treat women, and he is my hero. He is the reason I know that true love still exists.
Now I know that not every guy is like this. In fact, the majority of guys aren’t like this. But the fact of the matter is, is that there are still guys out there, and we will look at how to make sure you end up with a guy like this.


Change yourself

One of the things that I have learned in life, is that you can’t change someone. The only way someone will change, is because they decide to. You can give the best reasons, the best proof, the biggest motivation to someone to help them change, but the decision to change is up to that person. You can even hold a gun to a person’s head to have them do something, but they will only do it just to not get shot.
Instead of focusing our energy on changing other people, we need to focus our energy and time to work on ourselves. While you’re single, you have the best opportunity to find out who you really are. You also have the perfect time to work on things that you need to work on or change about yourself. One of the biggest ways to attract the man of your dreams, is to be the type of woman that attracts who you are looking for. How do you do that? Look at what you’re looking for in a guy, and make sure you’re that type of person. If you’re looking for an honest guy, then you need to be honest yourself.
When you are talking about changing yourself, the first thing that people usually think about is physical change. We all have things that we like and don’t like about our body. There are things that we wish could change, and other things that we want to keep. The thing to remember about our physical looks, is that there isn’t a single person in the world that is perfectly happy with their body. Even skinny supermodels have things about their body that they want to change.
The key in physical appearance is to realize what you can change, and what you can’t change. There are going to be some things about your body that you can’t change (except through very expensive plastic surgery). And with things like this, you need to accept this part of you, and have self esteem and confidence. A guy doesn’t want a girl that doesn’t have self esteem. If you are a girl with low self esteem, start with the things that you like about your body, and focus on those. Everyone has at least something about their body that they like. And be specific. From there, go to the things that you can change, and work on those. And if there is something about your body that you can’t change, then just accept it and don’t focus on it. Chances are, it’s not as bad as you think it is, and people don’t focus on it like you think they do. Download this physical appearance form , or grab a blank paper, and write down a list of body parts or characteristics that you like, that you don’t like and can change, and things that you don’t like and have to accept.
There are many things you can change about your physical appearance. Some of these things include use whitening strips to whiten your teeth and wash your face and use cleansers to have a nice face. For your body, you can drink lots of water, eat right, and exercise to lose weight, as well as go to the gym to tone your body. Don’t forget proper grooming of body hair.
Aside from the body, there are other things you can change about yourself, such as your personality. Many people don’t realize that your personality isn’t fixed. You can change your personality. Your personality is the way you feel or perceive things in certain situations, or how you act. All of these characteristics are formed from a habit of being a certain way. If you are not a really happy person, then change that. Force yourself to smile, and to be happy. Focus on good things, and things that make you happy and make the decision to start acting positively instead of negatively.
Another thing that you can change is your character. Character should be very important in what you look for in a guy. Do you want an honest guy? Do you want a guy of integrity? A guy that can be trusted? A guy that is trusting? Character is very important, because it’s who you are at the core. It affects how you act in different situations. If someone will lie about small things, then they will lie about big things. If someone steals small things, then they will steal big things. Integrity is who you are, when no one is looking. Anyone can put on a mask, and act a certain way for a little bit of time. But who you are when no one is around is who you really are. How honest are you? Do you tell little lies? Do you talk about other people behind other people’s back? Some other character qualities are tolerance, patience, humility, kindness, loyalty. Where are you at on these qualities. Are there any that you need to work on? Remember, you attract the type of person that you are.
It is extremely important to work on who you are and who you want to be when you’re single. Because when you are in a relationship, you don’t always see these characteristics because you’re with someone, and don’t really think about what you can work on. But when you’re single, and trying to figure out how you can be better to attract someone better, you can search yourself better and evaluate where you are on different characteristics. The best way to attract Mr. Right, is to be Miss Right. What are you looking for in a guy, and be the reflection of that.


Know what you want

Being single gets very monotonous and boring after a while. Believe me, I know. You begin to get lonely, and question if you really do deserve a good guy, and if you will ever find one. You begin to have doubts about your looks, and qualities, and wonder if you’re being too picky. But do not fear. Use the time to work on yourself, and make yourself ready to be in a relationship. If your life is unorganized and out of whack, then how much more unorganized and crazy is it going to be if you are in a relationship. You need to work on being who you need to be and getting your life in order.
Well how do you know whether you have the qualities that a good guy is looking for? What exactly does a good guy look for in a girl. Well here is a list of qualities that a good guy wants in a girl. It might be shallow to say, but guys do go for looks more then girls do. This applies across the board, from jerks to nice guys. Men are very visual, and therefore looks do matter to a guy. But before you start freaking out, we’re not talking about supermodel looks. Guys love girls that take care of themselves, from taking care of their bodies, to doing your hair. So you’re not a supermodel-Not many girls are. But a good guy would rather have “the girl next door” looks that is confident in herself, then have a super hot girl who is stuck up. Guys don’t like girls who are stuck up, and think that they’re better then other people. However, we do want a girl who is confident in her looks, in who she is, and doesn’t try to be someone she’s not.
Guys want a girl that is completely honest, and not afraid to shoot straight with us. We would rather have a girl tell us something that we don’t like but is the truth, then a girl who lies to us and tells us what they think we want to hear. Guys love to be appreciated. The easiest way to break a guy’s heart, is to be unappreciative of something he does or gets for you. Guys like to be romantic and do things for girls, especially when the girls appreciate it, and tell their friends about it. This makes the guy feel like “the man.”
Guys want girls that like to have fun, that aren’t superficial, and isn’t afraid to get their hands dirty. Now I’m not talking about a tom boy. We still like our girls to be girly, but not too girly that if it starts raining, you’re worried about your hair getting wet. (P.S. - Girls look sexy with wet hair.) Good guys like girls that aren’t slutty, that don’t dress like they’re a Las Vegas showgirl. Sure, if you show a lot of cleavage, you do get many guy’s attention; but it isn’t what a good guy wants, and especially what he wants in a girlfriend. How you dress, attracts a certain type of guy. If you dress in short skirts, and cleavage shirts, then you will attract guys who care only about that. But if you dress nice then you will attract guys that think you’re pretty and care more about what you are hiding underneath your clothes. And girls can dress sexy, without dressing slutty.
These are some basic things that good guys look for in a girl. Now every guys has preferences on things he likes or doesn’t like. As you get to know a guy, these preferences will come out. But just remember to be honest, be who you are, and remember that we’re always changing. We are not a finished product. Never be afraid to change and grow.
Now I don’t claim this to be a cure-all for your single needs. I know that each person is different, and are in different situations. It is merely a guidebook to help build a foundation to get you started in the right direction in looking for Mr. Right. It is to give you a new way of thinking, a fresh outlook on dating. Too many times we set ourselves up for failure, because we don’t really know what we’re doing. We should never be afraid, or too prideful to ask for help. Life is too short to make all the mistakes ourselves. Never be afraid to get advice from someone who has been there, and gone down the same path you are. You are not facing anything that someone hasn’t already faced many times before you. But I do hope that you take this advice to heart, to physically write down what you’re looking for, and to not compromise on that list. I want you to have self-esteem and confidence, have self worth, and realize that you are a very special girl, and that you deserve a man that will be treat you like a princess, and be your Prince Charming. And he is out there. The question is, “Are you ready?”



TaKe it Slow
When you find a guy that you like, and you start to get to know each other, it is important to remember to take it slow. Make sure you really get to know the guy before you become a couple. The farther you get in a relationship, and the more serious you get, the harder it is to call it off, if you realize that it’s not going to work. It’s much easier to say to a guy, “I’ve enjoyed getting to know you, and you’re a great guy, but I’m just looking for something different,” then to have to fight through the feelings, memories, and moments that have been created to back out of the relationship.
Going to movies can be fun, but it isn’t a very good first date idea because it’s not a way to really get to know a person. When you go to a movie, there isn’t any interaction with the other person. The entire date is spent watching a movie, which although is fun, doesn’t teach you anything about the other person. Make sure that you do things where you can talk, and feel comfortable to ask questions, and share information about each other.
When you are dating, the most important thing is to BE HONEST! If I have one pet peeve with girls…it’s this–they will go out with a guy, say they had a great time…he will ask can they go out again and she says, “Call me.” So he calls…and calls…and calls! The girl never answers when she sees its him on caller ID, she thinks if she ignores him then he may just go away. BUT, because he’s a guy and probably a little clueless–he keeps calling.
Finally they accidentally run into each other somewhere…I say “accidentally” because she had NO INTENTIONS of ever speaking to him again. He says, “I’ve been trying to call you,” and she replies, “Really…yeah, uh, I’ve been…uh…you know…busy.”
He says, “That’s cool–I understand…so, what are you doing tomorrow night?”
“Tomorrow night? Uh…well…uh…I have plans.” (This is always the safest answer, right?)
“Plans–well what about the night after that…” This conversation goes on and on with the girl making some obscure reference to having to check her schedule and for him to call her–and the game goes on.
Please, please, please, BE HONEST. If you like the guy and want to go back out–and he asks you–then say yes. Don’t play games…say yes and go. BUT…if you have no intentions of ever going back out with him again…then please, tell him because it isn’t fair to play games with his heart and string him along.
Another important thing to do is to Not over-analyze! Girls are horrible at this…a guy will ask them out and they will think the following…
“He just asked me out–what does he mean by going “out?”
“If I go out this once then does that mean we are dating?”
“What if I don’t like going out with him–and he asks me out again?”
“Is he thinking marriage? Oh my–if we had kids they just wouldn’t be cute!”
“He hasn’t called me in a day, he hates me, did I have broccoli in my teeth?”
I could literally go on and on…but ladies, if a guy ask you out and you want to go–then go, and don’t spend the 72 hours before and after trying to analyze things that probably will never happen.
Another thing you need to be clear with to the guy, is that you’re not looking for sex. Many girls will date a guy for a week or two, and engage in sexual activity. Now I’m not going to sit here and tell you that you need to wait until you’re married to have sex. What you do with your body is your choice. But what I am going to warn you about is doing stuff with a guy early in the relationship. There are many guys out there, from high school to college, to older, who aren’t looking for a relationship, or anything serious, but is only looking for sex. And the guys that are like this, will do or say anything to get it. These are the guys that you need to stay away from. A lot of times, they seem like nice guys, might seem sweet, charming, or smooth, but they are really a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
If you engage in sexual activity, it actually does two things. First thing it does, is attract these types of guys. Guys that will just use you for your body. They don’t care about you, your feelings, or your anything about you. They just want the sex. These guys are usually guys that will cheat as well. If sex is all a guy cares about, then he will get it however he can, including hurting you and whoever else he comes in contact with. The other thing that happens when you do sexual stuff early in a relationship is that it lets a guy knows he can get sexual attention from you, without having to commit to you.. You’ve heard the expression, “Why buy the cow, if you can get the milk for free?” The expression applies perfectly to this situation. Why would a guy want to commit to a girl, spend his free time, buy her things, and do things that he doesn’t have to, if you will give him sex, without a serious relationship.
Like I said, it’s your choice on how far you want to go with a guy, and when you want to do it. You just need to make sure that the guy wants you for you, and not for your body. This will help prevent a lot of heartache and feelings of being used. Wouldn’t you rather a guy love you and want you for who you are, and not just because of what you have?


Be PaTiEnT
One of the biggest problem that girls get into is that they’re not patient. Girls almost always get their self esteem from guys. So if they’re not constantly being told that they’re attractive, or being sought after, they begin to question whether or not they’re pretty. You will notice that girls that have low self esteem will date, or get physical with a lot of guys to feed that insecurity that they have. Most girls can’t go long periods of time without a boyfriend for this very reason. And this gets girls into trouble, because they will settle for a guy, just to show that they are still pretty, and the guy is a bad fit for her but the girl will stay with him, because it fuels her self esteem.
If you are not patient, then you will take what you want in a guy, and throw that out the window, and settle for a guy that isn’t right for you. You need to make sure that you’re confident in who you are, have self esteem and know that you’re a pretty girl, and have the self worth to wait for the right guy.
You also need to make sure that a guy pursues you. Admit it-the desire of your heart is to know that someone thinks you are lovely enough to pursue…and when a guy makes an effort to win your heart, there’s just something about that that makes you feel special. You want a guy that wants to win your heart. If you pursue the guy, then he takes you for granted. If you are a pursuable woman, then a worth-while guy will notice at the right time. You just have to be patient. If you have to pursue a guy and initiate all of the conversations and planning then the guy is not ready to lead. Girls chase boys, but women wait to be pursued.
You need to make sure that you don’t settle because of insecurities in your life OR because your friends are getting married and you think that you are going to be 28 and single–which would be the end of the world!!! I have seen girls get here and panic–and then date and marry some dude, only to be in divorce court in less than five years–which brings about another set of issues altogether!


wHat u LikE
When you go to buy a car, you don’t buy the first car you see that has a steering wheel. So why are we that way with a guy, who is even more important then a car. Many girls go for the first guy that comes along that is cute and likes them. When it comes to finding a guy worth keeping, you need to be picky. And being picky isn’t saying, I’m better then that guy. Being picky is saying, I’m worth it. I deserve to find a guy who will treat me right, and make me happy, and will stand beside me the rest of my life. Why would you settle for anything less. You’re just setting yourself up for failure. And failure is never fun. Breakups are never fun, and always cause heartache. So why not limit the heartaches.
So what do you want in a guy? I’ve split it up into 6 categories on what you should look for in a guy. You should be able to write a list of Physical, Character, Beliefs, Future/Goals, and Likes/Dislikes qualities that you want in a guy. You might have some very specific qualities or characteristics, and then some might not be so specific. Download the What I want in a guy form or get a blank piece of paper and fill it out.
When I talk about physical qualities, I’m not necessarily talking about hair or eye color, although if you are looking for something particular, then you can have that. But do you want a guy in shape? Are you looking for a taller guy? Long or short hair? What kind of hygiene are you looking for? Do you want him to be hairy or smooth? Some of these might be secondary or you’re not as particular about them. But for some of them, you might be specific and want something in particular.
Perhaps the most important thing you should look for in a guy is his character. Do you want a guy that will lie to you, or go behind your back. Do you want a guy that belittles you, or treats you like crap. Do you want a guy that doesn’t trust you, or stalks you to makes sure you are where you say you are. Character is who a person really is at the core, and should be very important in what you’re looking for.
You want someone that you’re compatible with, and this is where personality comes in. If you like to have fun, and joke around, then obviously you want someone that is similar. If you’re a very positive and happy and outgoing person, you don’t want to be with someone who is always negative, and down. Do you want a guy that gets mad easily? These are important qualities that you should look at, and look for in a guy.
Something that most people don’t think about when looking for a guy is the other persons beliefs and convictions. This can be from what church or religion you’re a part of, or what you believe in when you die, or how you feel about a particular subject. If you’re really religious and into God, then you should look for a guy that is as well. Because eventually, things are going to cross, and there will be conflict. If you’re not really religious, do you want a guy that is? Also this includes any convictions or beliefs about different topics like maybe drinking, drugs, abortion, political views. Do you want a guy with a certain view on different topics or beliefs. If so, then this is important to find someone who has similar views or beliefs.
Another thing that most people don’t think about when looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend is what the other person’s future or goals are. If you’re really into wanting to have kids and a family, and you’re dating a guy that doesn’t want kids, eventually these paths will cross, and you will have conflict. If you want to buy a home, and the guy wants to travel the world for 5 years, then obviously someone is going to have to give up their dreams. Why would you have a boyfriend who has different goals or a different future then what you want or are looking for. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment as eventually you’re going to give up your dreams, or breakup with him.
The Final category is miscellaneous likes and dislikes. Maybe you want a guy that likes a certain thing, or don’t want a guy that dislikes a certain thing. This is where these qualities go. Now these can be things that you won’t budge on, or maybe things that you would prefer to have in a guy.
So what kind of characteristics does a good guy have. A good guy will be unselfish, be romantic, be willing to commit, and give you his whole heart and soul. But he will expect the same from you. A good guy will be willing to go above and beyond to do things for you and to take care of you. He will be sensitive to your needs, feelings and emotions. He won’t belittle you or treat you like garbage. He won’t raise his voice in anger at you. He is confident in who he is, but he’s not cocky. He is honest, and would never lie to you. He trusts you in what you say and do. He is someone that doesn’t care about the mistakes you’ve made in the past. He only cares about who you are now. He is supportive and wants your dreams to come true. He is stable and wants you to support you and be there for you when you need help. He is there for you if you want to talk, or share your feelings, or just need a shoulder to cry on. These are just some characteristics of a good guy.
You need to make sure you know what you want and set high expectations. You need to know what you’re looking for, and not settle. You can’t look at a guy and say, “I can fix him up, and he might work.” Because this isn’t true. Girls marry guys all the time expecting them to change, and the guys don’t. When you get married you need to be willing to say, “I will love this person AS IS
for the rest of my life, if NOTHING changes I will love them!” BECAUSE, when you get married,
change is NOT a guarantee…so don’t listen to promises of change if evidence is not shown beforehand. So make sure you are picky, set your expectations high, and don’t settle!!!
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Step 1
Always be prepared for class. This not only means doing your homework, but bringing to class newspaper or magazine articles of topics that are being discussed. Also if you know someone with expertise on the subject being discussed in class, talk to this person to see if they want to be a special guest at the classroom.

Step 2
Write clearly. There is nothing worse than having to correct many papers or assignments at a time that have poor penmanship. Make your work easy to read by typing it whenever possible.

Step 3
Dress as if you were going to a job. Teachers and professors can read your attitude in your clothing.

Step 4
Pay attention. Not all subjects will be your favorite, but it is important to show interest in what is being discussed in class.

Step 5
Treat your teachers or professors with respect. If you were in their shoes, you would not like to teach a class full of disrespectful students.

Step 6
Actively participate in class. Insightful questions show that you have given thought to the material being discussed. Think about what is being said in class and what you read--don't just memorize the information given to you.

Step 7
Whenever you don’t understand something, ask for extra help. If you don’t clarify your doubts in the beginning, you will fall behind in class.
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By Kiplinger's Personal Finance Magazine
A number of the people profiled in "
Millionaires tell how they did it" made their millions as entrepreneurs. But working for the Man doesn't mean you have to be a wage slave or resort to buying lottery tickets to strike it rich. The trick is to maximize your income on the job (and know when to move on), make the most of your employee benefits and tax breaks and use that extra money to start investing.


1. Keep your eyes peeled for better ways to do your job. Streamline a procedure, shave costs, create a new profit center, become an expert on a specific topic, volunteer for a company committee -- anything that will make you stand out as a prime candidate for a promotion or a pay boost.


2. Don't be afraid to negotiate. In a study of master's degree graduates from her university, Carnegie Mellon economics professor Linda Babcock found that those who negotiated their first salary boosted their pay by 7.4% compared with those who didn't bargain.


3. Get your ducks in a row and your numbers on paper. If possible, quantify how much your efforts add to the company's bottom line. If that's not feasible, spotlight your value with comparable salaries for workers in your position from a Web site, such as Salary.com, or from a professional association.
Talk back:
Do you hope to be a millionaire?


4. Plot your strategy when it's time to move on. Create a professional-looking page on MySpace that tells prospective employers why you're an exceptional candidate, recommends John Challenger of the outplacement firm Challenger, Gray & Christmas. And don't neglect more conventional networking: Join a professional association or show up at school reunions toting business cards.
Milk your benefits


5. Contribute as much as you can to your 401(k) and other tax-deferred retirement plans. You'll not only build a bigger nest egg, but you'll also cut your tax bill. In the 25% federal tax bracket, every $1,000 you contribute to a 401(k) trims your taxes by $250. And you'll save on state income taxes, too.


6. Flex your tax-saving muscle. Contribute pretax dollars to a flexible spending account to pay for dependent care or out-of-pocket medical expenses. If you set aside $1,500 per year and you're in the 25% bracket, avoiding federal income and Social Security taxes means Uncle Sam will subsidize almost $500 of your expenses.
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7. Review your tax withholding. If you're expecting a refund this spring, you're having too much tax withheld from your paycheck -- and making an interest-free loan to Uncle Sam. That's no way to become a millionaire. Put more money in your pocket by using Kiplinger's withholding calculator and then filling out a new Form W-4.


8. Stash savings in a Roth IRA if you're eligible. Withdrawals in retirement, including decades of compounded earnings, will be tax-free. This year, income-eligibility limits for a Roth increase to $114,000 for individuals and $166,000 for married couples.
Invest like crazy 9. Don't delay. The quicker you get a jump on putting money aside, the easier it will be to stuff a seven-figure cushion. If you start at age 25, for example, investing $286 per month will get you $1 million by age 65, assuming you earn 8% annually.


10. Invest automatically, either through your employer's retirement plan or by setting up a regular deposit to a mutual fund or broker. You'll never miss the money, and you'll avoid two big mistakes: buying too much when stock prices are high and not buying at all when prices fall.


11. Watch for fund fees. The more you pay, the tougher it is to earn an above-average return. The typical hedge fund, for example, takes 20% of any gains, a huge hurdle to overcome. A better bet: no-load mutual funds with expense ratios of 1% or less. If you trade individual stocks, watch those commissions.


12. Keep it simple. Be wary of get-rich-quick schemes or sales pitches for complex investments, such as oil-and-gas partnerships, that trade on the millionaire cachet to lure investors into buying high-fee products they don't understand. Most millionaire households accumulate their wealth over the long term by sticking to a regular investing plan in a balanced portf